1) Do not get stuck in the past. The first thing that people need to learn when it comes to how an adult is that this will be a whole new experience so that the person who comes in past relationships does not compare. Feels under pressure do not go over the whole nine meters. When you start, it is good to group to appointments where less pressure or the person will meet at events where many people will be. They do not want to compete with the spirits of the past of the partner, so they do not put in the same comparison process. You do not have to start with whole flowers and type of date for dinner. Go bowling or play laser day to play or volunteer together.
2) It is in order to avoid profligate. If I had a particularly unpleasant refusal or a particularly sucky break, you do not have to talk to your ex if you run into it somewhere. Love as adults would not be with the other person who would possess the way you owned your favorite TV show or sports team. Through an appropriate hint, they do not stalk them in social networks either. Defriend and unfollow as soon as possible from all the social networks that are associated with them. True love is the way in which we like to be with us instead of making our choices for ourselves or trying to take the parts from us that like and put the rest of us in a box.
3) Pray for everything. If you meet someone for the first time, now. When you start as friends, pray. And no matter if things progress in something more than friendship or when things must remain Platonic to pray. It is God who created your heart and he led you through what happened. Offer your heart to it so that when it breaks it to fix it. Pray for the person who will be driven, what of them God wants. Adult love means that we are giving the relationship as itself and the best kind of love where we hold our authenticity and integrity.